please refer to surah annur (24:30-31) it is the verses that explain about lowering your gaze for men and women..
the talk was by Rehanna Sadiq
reading at the title..yes..it is about the aurat..brothers out there..you are not excluded to read this post..if you have sisters, share it to them because a brother has his responsibilities towards his female siblings and his mother..
'the right to choose' IS related to what Allah has stated in the Quran..and He knows what is best for His servant..women are asked to cover to protect ourselves (eg:sexually harassed, fitnah, imagined by someone's husband that makes him
etc etc). so if one covers, it will insyaAllah protect the other sisters..in what way? cani..imagine lah..supermodels on tv, artists..aren't they pretty my brothers? your eyes won't even blink just to see what you want to see..just imagine if one of the brother imagined us in a way he want it to be..i mean like those on tv..imagine the desire that comes after that..okay enough..
another example..if women do not cover..'everything' can be seen..as if you 'are free of charge' thing..can be taken for granted and of course free things can be transferred into anything..like...'eh bini2 ah..cuba kamu liat..lain tu usulnya..rambutnya cali tu padahal nda cali pun..' in the end jadi bahan ejekan..all these things happen kan..?and i guarantee there are other related stories ..so if you are covered..insyaAllah this will not happen..but..the covered do become victims because of those who do not covered..why? man has desire..if they want something and they did not get it..anyone who passes by in front of them will be his victim..na'udzubillah..sal atu tah modesty ani penting..kalau tani cover, we're helping the others jua insyaAllah..for my brothers out there..i apologize if it sounds harsh..but, to be frank, it's not just the 'brother's' fault but actually the sisters are also to be blamed
(17:32) "..don't come near to zina.." but having life partner stables the community insyaAllah..
the speaker has also mentioned about women in the society..are they not allowed to go out? are they only allowed to stay at home..she said:we still need to lower our gaze, speak not in a seducing tone..if women have to, women do need to talk to men face to face..but that's all..with no other
feelings..as an example: Fatimah Azzahra do stand next to his father, prophet Muhammad when he was trying to spread Islam..hence, she sees men..saiditina Aisyah r.a do lead a group of men to fight when there was an argument between Aisyah r.a and Sayyidina Ali after the death of Sayyidian Uthman, the 3rd Caliph Ar-Rasyidin
the speaker did say about her teenage experience..she rebelled, didn't wear jilbab..it took her a long time to understand why her mom didn't allow her to wear nice dress and showed her hair to people..but in the end, she understands the concept..she understands the reason behind it..therefore, she is wearing it till now..
besides..women who covered show the identity if Islam..people who see, will insyaAllah greet with salam..alhamdulillah..the best greeting of all..a du'a with meanings for our own good..
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