women..always been related to be naggers..Girls? agree? Well, having this in mind, I come to think, why wives nagged? the husband returns home from work, and the wife started talking and talking and talking..bila kn stop ni..nyanyah th banar..
what did they actually nag about? from movies or novels, it has always been because the hubby returned home late, less spending time together,laziness..what else..that's all i can think of..
urmm..why am i writing this? i'm not even a wife yet =p Ok, here's the case..what if the husband is a workaholic, spends hours at work but less time with the wife? when he returns home, he gets so tired and wants to rest..the next day, the routine starts over and over again..during the weekend, hangout with friends or, if the wife is lucky, a quality time with her..
so when is it the time to nag or complain? wives got feelings, sensitiveness, have a heart that needs to be taken care of..when can wives let it out?the next morning? (no,it will ruin his day) weekend? (no,that's the only time they can spend together, why ruin it?) so, the best time is......after he gets home!!! reason/s:
1. well, he's home!
2.*better say it before he's asleep*
3.i don't know..u guys ask real wives lh ah..=p
so hubby's out there..just try to listen bh what there are trying to say, not just listen, but understand them. don't memorise what they're saying, 100% you will get bored!! c'mon lh..everyday, the same thing, nda kh boreng? but, ever think WHY ia balik2..? hehe so..listen, figure out something, work it out together..nicely.. don't just be the ears that aren't listening. what's the purpose of having one then..
Boys meet girls,husbands and wives, men need women to be complete. Adam sunyi tanpa Hawa, hadirnya Hawa, hilanglah kesunyian..
Jodoh, Allah saja yang tahu..if u think u've got one, cherish it, two people are involved, there's no point of having one when only one of them is working it out..just remember, DUGAAN~ it comes to make you more stronger and wiser..but don't be too dependent of saying DUGAAN~ coz, it's like you're just letting it happen and do nothing..not goooood~ bh =D
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